This year is going to be a little different than years past when it comes to presents. Brent and I have decided to teach our children the meaning of Christmas.
This year our children have been especially naughty and not very nice to each other or the others around them (including mom and dad). We have been dealing with bad attitudes, non-sharing, rude comments and general mis-behavior. So with such bad behavior we believe it would not be right to reward them.
Instead we are taking the kids with us to the store; we are allowing them to pick a couple toys, blankets and outfits to give to other little boys and girls. We are going to take them down to the homeless shelter to give the gifts so that they can understand how very blessed they are for all they have. And to share love and Christ during this Christmas season.
When we told the kids that this was our plans we expected there to be a fight about what is 'fair.' But instead we were pleasantly surprised when the kids started to get really excited for the idea of giving gifts. So far everyday the kids have been asking when we will go and buy the gifts and when we will give them. I love that they are really getting the message.
We also informed the little ones that Santa may bring something special if he can see that they have a happy heart when they give the presents. So we will see how this goes. Hopefully they will understand the meaning behind our actions; that happiness is in what you do and not what you have.
So there are our plans to spread the true message of Christmas. We hope you all have a great Christmas and many blessings.
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We are also trying to focus on service this year and not be so elaborate on the gift giving. With the economy the way it is and so many people we can help, our priorities have changed. Hopefully the kids will respond as well as yours.
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